• Describe the behavior without labels.
  • Write the limit you need.
  • Check that it describes your action, not control.
  • Choose one clear sentence.
  • Prepare for disagreement without threats.
  • Choose a proportionate consequence.
  • Decide how you will follow through.
  • Leave room for the other person’s choice.

A practical next step

If you want to clarify how this applies to your situation, you can begin with a Zero Session.